This article offers ways to talk to your kids about their achievements in “non-toxic” ways. It also offers suggestions of how to talk to your kids when they get home from school and athletics that help you show kids their worth is not in achievements. This is a must read. There is also a short video as well.

https://www.msn.com/en-us/money/other/harvard-trained-toxic-parenting-researcher-here-s-the-no-1-thing-i-never-do-with-my-kids/ar-AA1hMX6F?ocid=entnewsntp&pc=U531&cvid=8f6bd31820ab4095a660fa027b6fd157&ei=16